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		<title>By: kathryn krughoff</title>
		<link>http://www.vicentewolfblog.com/random/frustration/comment-page-2/#comment-1702</link>
		<dc:creator>kathryn krughoff</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Oct 2009 19:31:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>How do you avoid working for &quot;non-paying&quot; friends?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How do you avoid working for &#8220;non-paying&#8221; friends?</p>
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		<title>By: Laura Mauceri</title>
		<link>http://www.vicentewolfblog.com/random/frustration/comment-page-2/#comment-1701</link>
		<dc:creator>Laura Mauceri</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2009 23:37:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I totally agree that the general public has unrealistic expectations but it is our job as interior designers and professionals to educate these people and let them know that it requires education, talent ,experience as well as many hours of hard work to create well lived enviornments.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I totally agree that the general public has unrealistic expectations but it is our job as interior designers and professionals to educate these people and let them know that it requires education, talent ,experience as well as many hours of hard work to create well lived enviornments.</p>
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		<title>By: alison bremer</title>
		<link>http://www.vicentewolfblog.com/random/frustration/comment-page-2/#comment-1700</link>
		<dc:creator>alison bremer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2009 18:27:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I recently had a client who works in healthcare tell me, &quot;Well you&#039;re just a designer - I save lives.&quot;

Ignorance, lack of education, selfishness, lack of respect...I don&#039;t know what it is but I wish it would change.

And I completely agree, HGTV is not valuing our field.  It makes the general public think that we can go into our studio, do a sketch, and whip up a design for an entire room in an hour, or less.  Thanks a lot candace Olson!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I recently had a client who works in healthcare tell me, &#8220;Well you&#8217;re just a designer &#8211; I save lives.&#8221;</p>
<p>Ignorance, lack of education, selfishness, lack of respect&#8230;I don&#8217;t know what it is but I wish it would change.</p>
<p>And I completely agree, HGTV is not valuing our field.  It makes the general public think that we can go into our studio, do a sketch, and whip up a design for an entire room in an hour, or less.  Thanks a lot candace Olson!</p>
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		<title>By: GB Design</title>
		<link>http://www.vicentewolfblog.com/random/frustration/comment-page-2/#comment-1699</link>
		<dc:creator>GB Design</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Aug 2009 01:42:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you so much for sharing this with us, altho you&#039;ve killed my dream of what it is like to be at the top of this profession..... I&#039;ve often wondered if fame and national recognition have an impact on the perception that an interior designer&#039;s time is not of the same value as a lawyer&#039;s, programer&#039;s, music agent&#039;s or investment banker&#039;s, but to hear that you still suffer from this perception after all of your accomplishments is shocking. I&#039;ll assume it is the rare case and I&#039;ll stick with the vision that when you walk into the room the perspective client swoons, bows at your feet, signs a blank check and sends you flowers to thank you for taking them as clients!

Thanks for opening your heart and sharing your thoughts.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you so much for sharing this with us, altho you&#8217;ve killed my dream of what it is like to be at the top of this profession&#8230;.. I&#8217;ve often wondered if fame and national recognition have an impact on the perception that an interior designer&#8217;s time is not of the same value as a lawyer&#8217;s, programer&#8217;s, music agent&#8217;s or investment banker&#8217;s, but to hear that you still suffer from this perception after all of your accomplishments is shocking. I&#8217;ll assume it is the rare case and I&#8217;ll stick with the vision that when you walk into the room the perspective client swoons, bows at your feet, signs a blank check and sends you flowers to thank you for taking them as clients!</p>
<p>Thanks for opening your heart and sharing your thoughts.</p>
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		<title>By: Hoechstetter Interiors</title>
		<link>http://www.vicentewolfblog.com/random/frustration/comment-page-2/#comment-1698</link>
		<dc:creator>Hoechstetter Interiors</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Jul 2009 08:25:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi, Vicente,

Please add my voice to those who are glad as well as sad to know that these issues are still found even in the upper echelons of the profession!  As a relative newcomer to the field (professionally), it really helps me feel better about the people I&#039;m encountering to know that it&#039;s something that&#039;s just part and parcel of what we do.  People are always going to want something for nothing, particularly if they really don&#039;t perceive the value in what it is they&#039;re asking for, or understand what it really takes.

I do agree that the issue is essentially two-fold, namely a lack of education and knowledge on the part of the consumer/client, and the horrible disservice that HGTV has done to the profession.

I will just add that I think the industry&#039;s professional organizations have failed the whole profession miserably.  Instead of spending millions trying to pass restrictive, anticompetitive legislation that would put thousands of people out of work (please see http://nodesignlegislation.wordpress.com and http://idpcinfo.org for more information on this issue), we would all be so much further ahead if they&#039;d spent that money instead on a strong advertising and educational campaign targetted at consumers to really teach them about what we really do.

As long as our existing professional associations are not on board with really educating end users effective, we are never going to see much of a change in this regard, because there&#039;s no way that we as individuals can educate enough people to create the sea change in understanding and attitude that will be necessary for people to truly know and value what we do.  I do think that now that the blog phenomenon is here, that may help, but we still need a lot more concentrated and coordinated effort that even extends into our schools down to the elementary level.

One thing that we must all learn to focus on, too, is the value that we bring to clients, how we can improve their lives.  It&#039;s no longer enough to just be the best, but we have to be able to convey *why* we should be the ones they hire much more cogently than we may have had to do in the past, and why it&#039;s in their better interests to hire us.

BTW, I really enjoy your blog - and thanks so much for listing me in your blogroll!

Wendy Hoechstetter</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi, Vicente,</p>
<p>Please add my voice to those who are glad as well as sad to know that these issues are still found even in the upper echelons of the profession!  As a relative newcomer to the field (professionally), it really helps me feel better about the people I&#8217;m encountering to know that it&#8217;s something that&#8217;s just part and parcel of what we do.  People are always going to want something for nothing, particularly if they really don&#8217;t perceive the value in what it is they&#8217;re asking for, or understand what it really takes.</p>
<p>I do agree that the issue is essentially two-fold, namely a lack of education and knowledge on the part of the consumer/client, and the horrible disservice that HGTV has done to the profession.</p>
<p>I will just add that I think the industry&#8217;s professional organizations have failed the whole profession miserably.  Instead of spending millions trying to pass restrictive, anticompetitive legislation that would put thousands of people out of work (please see <a href="http://nodesignlegislation.wordpress.com" rel="nofollow">http://nodesignlegislation.wordpress.com</a> and <a href="http://idpcinfo.org" rel="nofollow">http://idpcinfo.org</a> for more information on this issue), we would all be so much further ahead if they&#8217;d spent that money instead on a strong advertising and educational campaign targetted at consumers to really teach them about what we really do.</p>
<p>As long as our existing professional associations are not on board with really educating end users effective, we are never going to see much of a change in this regard, because there&#8217;s no way that we as individuals can educate enough people to create the sea change in understanding and attitude that will be necessary for people to truly know and value what we do.  I do think that now that the blog phenomenon is here, that may help, but we still need a lot more concentrated and coordinated effort that even extends into our schools down to the elementary level.</p>
<p>One thing that we must all learn to focus on, too, is the value that we bring to clients, how we can improve their lives.  It&#8217;s no longer enough to just be the best, but we have to be able to convey *why* we should be the ones they hire much more cogently than we may have had to do in the past, and why it&#8217;s in their better interests to hire us.</p>
<p>BTW, I really enjoy your blog &#8211; and thanks so much for listing me in your blogroll!</p>
<p>Wendy Hoechstetter</p>
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		<title>By: Daryl Wark</title>
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		<dc:creator>Daryl Wark</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Jul 2009 04:56:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Vincent,
Your are amazing.
It is completely refreshing to see you still get  drop kicks like this at your level. My God. Where do these people come from. I am a interior designer and own two design inspiration store in Brisbane Australia. Had a bad weekend with a couple of ungrateful cheapscate customers wanting amazing product but still wanting to drive the price through the floor and one new design client last week do the same to me.You are so right if we went to our doctors and ask them to have a look at medical problem and then if we are happy with the answer we might consider paying him, we would all be sick. But so many people get the free sample. We all have to stop this practice or no one will ever be given the respect we deserve. Speaking of reality shows, (one of your responants did above) would be good if a show was done with a designer for and couple of months in there life and a few home truths on how hard they work might and how really talented they are might come to light.
I am thinking of speaking at a seminar and I think I will use the You tube film given by Tracey and Patricia as my starting sentace on life as a designer and shop owner.
Many many thanks for your inspiration over the years.
may people like those we speak of take a bus to Walmat and do it them selves.
Regards,
Daryl wark</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Vincent,<br />
Your are amazing.<br />
It is completely refreshing to see you still get  drop kicks like this at your level. My God. Where do these people come from. I am a interior designer and own two design inspiration store in Brisbane Australia. Had a bad weekend with a couple of ungrateful cheapscate customers wanting amazing product but still wanting to drive the price through the floor and one new design client last week do the same to me.You are so right if we went to our doctors and ask them to have a look at medical problem and then if we are happy with the answer we might consider paying him, we would all be sick. But so many people get the free sample. We all have to stop this practice or no one will ever be given the respect we deserve. Speaking of reality shows, (one of your responants did above) would be good if a show was done with a designer for and couple of months in there life and a few home truths on how hard they work might and how really talented they are might come to light.<br />
I am thinking of speaking at a seminar and I think I will use the You tube film given by Tracey and Patricia as my starting sentace on life as a designer and shop owner.<br />
Many many thanks for your inspiration over the years.<br />
may people like those we speak of take a bus to Walmat and do it them selves.<br />
Regards,<br />
Daryl wark</p>
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		<title>By: How to deal with 'those' clients &#124; Vicente Wolf Blog</title>
		<link>http://www.vicentewolfblog.com/random/frustration/comment-page-1/#comment-1696</link>
		<dc:creator>How to deal with 'those' clients &#124; Vicente Wolf Blog</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2009 18:00:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] of you are designers and have had to deal with those pesky clients we described in a recent post, Frustrations, I have found the perfect clip about that situation, thanks to  Tracey Davids who alerted [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] of you are designers and have had to deal with those pesky clients we described in a recent post, Frustrations, I have found the perfect clip about that situation, thanks to  Tracey Davids who alerted [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Vicente</title>
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		<dc:creator>Vicente</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2009 17:50:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Tracy &amp; Patricia - I am sending this to a couple of clients right now!

If you haven&#039;t seen it, watch it!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tracy &#038; Patricia &#8211; I am sending this to a couple of clients right now!</p>
<p>If you haven&#8217;t seen it, watch it!</p>
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		<title>By: patricia gray</title>
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		<dc:creator>patricia gray</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2009 15:53:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>BTW The UTube that #22 Tracy mentioned is brillant.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R2a8TRSgzZY

I am book marking it and going to send it to those clients who don&#039;t &#039;get it&#039;.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>BTW The UTube that #22 Tracy mentioned is brillant.<br />
<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R2a8TRSgzZY" rel="nofollow">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R2a8TRSgzZY</a></p>
<p>I am book marking it and going to send it to those clients who don&#8217;t &#8216;get it&#8217;.</p>
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		<title>By: patricia gray</title>
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		<dc:creator>patricia gray</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2009 15:41:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Unfortunately the people that you had in your office will never read this post or if they do will never understand it.  The clients who do &#039;get it&#039; are really the ones that benefit.  They get to live in a home that is custom designed for them, one that supports them both physically and emotionally.  A home that teaches their family and friends what it means to live well.  The best compliment I ever had from a client was that when she comes home from work at night she can just relax, everywhere she looks is beautiful.  How much is that worth, can we put a value on it.  You Bet we Can.  Great post Vicente!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Unfortunately the people that you had in your office will never read this post or if they do will never understand it.  The clients who do &#8216;get it&#8217; are really the ones that benefit.  They get to live in a home that is custom designed for them, one that supports them both physically and emotionally.  A home that teaches their family and friends what it means to live well.  The best compliment I ever had from a client was that when she comes home from work at night she can just relax, everywhere she looks is beautiful.  How much is that worth, can we put a value on it.  You Bet we Can.  Great post Vicente!!!</p>
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