One never knows when self discovery will take place. Over the weekend a few guests from Thailand stayed an extra day at my beach house. I ran through the pressure of getting the house together once again. That’s when I realized just how controlling I am of my “space.” I proceeded to show my guest how to make hospital corners, how to fluff pillows (no chop) and how to put fragile items back in place since my dear guest had a 2-year-old and accidents were bound to happen. She followed me throughout my home asking about every detail which was very enlightening (although, was she being sarcastic?) Still my mind was so consumed with the pillows that I had to write about this. It felt so important to make sure the fluff was just right and everything just so.